My Wisdom On Finding The Perfect One

Okay, hope everyone has had a good day today. I spent it relaxing and will continue writing tomorrow. Posting this late at night to share thoughts. A moment ago, someone asked me my insight on why people have trouble finding the perfect one. On why we can write and create our characters to be happy with the one we made for them, but can't find our own.
Just to be clear, I am not good at love, flirting, or dating apparently. I would love to be happy with someone, but I tend to mess up due to fears of repetition from past relationships. Below is my insight, wisdom on finding the perfect guy or girl/soul mates.

"Many people are on here for different reasons, one particular reason being that they are hoping to find the perfect guy/girl that is everything to them. There are some that wants someone that has the best appearance they have ever seen. They want someone that isn't afraid to argue with them, or they want someone that has a great personality. Then the ones that want someone that also wants marriage and kids, or those that don't want either of those. But it all comes down to finding the perfect one. Like I told someone in messages, the one could be anywhere. It could be the person that has nothing in common with you. The one that is very attractive, or the one that has an amazing personality. It could be a stranger you pass by every day or even someone from another country. It takes patience to find the perfect person, your soul mate. Point is, you will find the right one eventually. I'm being optimistic here because I know I should be the last person to give advice on finding the one. I have had four failed relationships, stood up for dates, and messed up my chances, but this is what my response was because that's what I think about the perfect one. And that, ladies and gentlemen, is my wisdom on love. 😏 "

Thanks for reading all that, and hope the rest of your day is well.

Love
Ariana